4 Ways To Have A Positive Experience On Social Media

“4 ways to have a positive experience when engaging with social media,” by Lisa Tang, University of Guelph and Stephanie K. Nishi, Universitat Rovira i Virgili

Have you ever thought about all the ways social media is woven into your everyday life? This has been especially true over the past year, where social media has proven itself as a valuable communication tool to connect with family and friends, provide social support through online community groups and get a quick response to a burning question from a peer.

Globally, prior to the pandemic, an estimated 3.4 billion people used social media and this number continues to rise annually. Yet the ways in which we use social media may determine whether it has a positive or potentially negative impact on our lives.

Although research investigating social media use among populations including adolescents and young adults show some positive linkages such as a sense of connection and increased accessibility to information, negative associations with mental health including depression and anxiety are evident throughout the literature.

Social Media & Depression

Our research focuses on how digital technologies influence human behaviour, and how we can leverage these technologies to improve overall health.

CNN looks at the relationship between social media and depression.

Social comparison and social media

The phrase “comparison is the thief of joy” rings true too. Researchers have found a link between social media use and FOMO (fear of missing out) and social comparison.

Because it is relatively new, research that explores how to use these digital communication technologies to support health and wellness is emerging. For example, there is exciting research investigating the use of social media in the form of interactive applications (apps) to engage and support people in achieving personal goals and maintaining a healthy physical and mental state.

With COVID-19 triggering an increase in mental health conditions, it becomes especially important that we become conscious consumers of the media so that we can engage with it in a positive and effective way.

Tips for more positive online experiences

social mediaBased on what we currently know from published research, there are things we can do right now to help manage it in our own lives so that we may use it in a positive and effective way:

1. Social stopwatch: Use a timer or app tracker to help moderate use. This may be helpful for mental health as research has shown that limiting social media use to no more than 30 minutes per day can reduce feelings of loneliness and depression. This can be as simple as setting a reminder to close social media or choosing an app tracker such as Forest or Space, where setting preferences can assist with monitoring or limiting social media use.

Setting boundaries around the consumption of the media can improve productivity as well — social media use can be a distraction to daily life, work and academic tasks.

2. Social activity: Remember to take breaks to disconnect from the screen. One way to support this is by following the adage “out of sight, out of mind.” Modifying settings and turning off app notifications, hiding apps in folders away from the home screen, or taking it one step further and deleting apps to further reduce temptation.

Incorporate screen-free time by engaging in regular physical activity, which curtails the chances of developing a dependence on social media. Indeed, swapping the use of apps with increased physical activity to meet the Canadian Sedentary Behaviour Guidelines and spending active time outdoors may also help to reduce stress and depression.

3. Social snacking: We are not talking about snacking while scrolling through social media! Instead, similar to how we think of some foods as nutrient-dense which nourish our body (like apples and carrots), and others as nutrient-poor and less useful for our body (like chocolate cake and candy), it can be thought of in the same way: engagement that makes us feel good or leaves us feeling unwell.

Aim to use it in ways that feel good or have a purpose. Examples of productive, positive social media use include connecting with supportive friends and family or using it to source useful information. Before you engage on these platforms, be aware not to overshare or post when stressed or anxious as this can result in a negative experience.

4. Social accountability: Be accountable to yourself and others regarding your social media use. This could mean reaching out to trusted family, friends and co-workers to ask them to gently remind you when they catch you checking your phone during a face-to-face engagement. Or, you can take advantage of built-in monitoring applications on your phone to set use goals and use the apps to track your progress!

It’s helpful to think of social media as a tool that needs some training to use properly. By finding the strategies that work for us to help manage our use, we can welcome a positive and healthy relationship with social media.The Conversation


Lisa Tang, PhD Candidate in Family Relations and Applied Nutrition, University of Guelph and Stephanie K. Nishi, Postdoctoral Fellow / Visiting Lecturer, Universitat Rovira i Virgili

This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.

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